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Parental "Love”? – Fully growns seek need satisfaction from their young in exchange for care – The 23rd Prasad from the Planetmates

Parental Care? The “Love” Contract

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Planetmates Release The Twenty-Third Prasad

sycophancy.shoe.kiss.4160945447_43e464a92e What you place on high, use to boost your estimation of yourself over all other living beings, and attribute to divine origins even is most often just this swirl of ritualistic craving and trickling satisfaction set in motion by keenly felt but supremely denied hurt.

Lion is First Consciousness at The Twenty-Third Prasad.

What you call “love” towards your young was at first simply the desperate hope they would eventually become the “parents” who did not love you as a child.

The Twenty-Third Prasad – The Care Contract, Parental Love?

asiatic_lion_185_20050328Such traits in newborns as non-expression of needs—in other words, non-shhhh”fussiness” or non-crying—were were selected over traits of expression of needs. Traits of “appeal,” “cuteness,” smiling more as opposed to less, or anything that held even slightly the prospect of the fulfillment of the fully growns’ own early deprivations, through the newborn, were selected for. This last meant that if fully growns could see a dim hope that they could get the nurturing – from their own newborns,Cat-and-Dog-150x150 now – that they did not get from their own fully growns when they themselves were newborns, they would feel more inclined to extend caring to such newborns and increase their survivability over other newborns. What you call “love” towards your children was at first simply the desperate hope that these newborns would eventually grow up to become the fully growns – “parents”—that they had wished they had but who in actuality did not care for them…did not “love” them sufficiently…when they were small. (to be continued)

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Paraphrase/ Elaboration/ Abstract of “The Twenty-Third Prasad” — by SillyMickel Adzema

woman-looking-in-mirrorSince your adults were disinclined to put in the huge sacrifice required to care for young who were for an exceedingly long time in a dependent state, the survival or your species required the evolution, through natural selection, of certain qualities. sprhThese elements further distinguished your species from all others.

These differences, for one thing, had to do with survival value being attached to non-expression of needs. For certainly if it was the excessive neediness of your young that disinclined adults to want them, then if a baby had less of those qualities or seemed to have less they would be less likely to be shunned or abandoned, thus more likely to survive.

sycophancy.shoe.kiss.4160945447_43e464a92eA dependent young one suppressing its needs would manifest in it crying as little as possible, being as “unfussy” as could be. But it was not just seeming to be not a burden that was advantageous. For your adults’ psyche being so much founded on not getting early needs met, you would crave anything holding out hope, however futile, of getting anything resembling that kind of satisfaction in the present.

So babies who had other qualities appealing to the adult—such as “cuteness,” smiling more, or anything in the category of “adorability” or being “entertaining” or otherwise attractive to an adult or reminiscent of the satisfaction of those early kurtcobainclap.240683,xcitefun-funny-2deprivations—would make that young one more likely to thrive. It would increase the overall amount of vital care it would receive from fully growns.

Since many of those early lacks had to do with being cared for, nurtured—what is commonly called “love”—it was any qualities of the newborn that seemed to hold the prospect of easing those cravings that were desired and thus were to being selected for and become more prevalent over time.how-to-divorce-your-parents-150x150 So if a child displayed behavior that was at all resembling what a truly nurturing parent would be like, he or she would attract more of that kind of attention in return.

unnaturalself.croppedThis was the unspoken “love contract” that developed between dependent young ones and fully grown attendants: If a child would act less like it had needs and more like it could satisfy needs it was more likely to actually receive some attention to its needs, however inauthentic and agenda-oriented that attention would be.

So the origins of what you call your unusually strong parental “love” is in this never-acknowledged “love” exchange. What you place on high, use to boost your estimation of yourself over all other living beings, and attribute to divine origins even is most often just this swirl of ritualistic craving and trickling satisfaction set in motion by keenly felt but supremely denied hurt.

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“Truth Is God” and The Third Prasad – Humans are Half-Borns

Humans Only Half Ready for Life at Birth

Planetmates Release The Third Prasad

Over 25,000 years Have Humans of All Cultures at All Times Been Immunized From Even an Inkling of the Unapproved and Hidden

Human’s Planetmates pull off the greatest reveal of all time: Over 25,000 years have humans of all cultures at all times been immunized from even an inkling of the Unapproved and Hidden. This refusal (fear) to know the deepest truths of all has been a big part of why it is humans who can do so much against even their own interests. But with all lives in the balance, they are no longer allowed their ignorance. The Truth ends up being something humans would fear: It shows the lie to all human’s vanity. But it also reveals the most wonderful truth that could ever, ever be even imagined.

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We are half-borns, say Planetmates. Only half-ready, more dependent, vulnerable at birth. “The Third Prasad” out

This message begins to tell us how we are seen as different by all other species on Earth. We are seen as not quite ready for life when we are born, and we are seen as more vulnerable and more dependent on the good will of others for our very life. This is, indeed, a way in which we differ from all other beings. I believe it is called secondary altriciality. I’ll check this out more and then elaborate on this.

"[O]nly half-ready for life at the time of birth...humans alone are...totally dependent for their survival upon the good will of the fully grown...."

The Third Prasad – Humans Only Half Ready for Life at Birth

HALF-BORNS

With more time, and despite the myriad experiences and changes of the multitudinous and diverse (and mostly spread out and separated, never touching or knowing each other, on amassive planet) peoples and cultures, the Unapproved and Hidden are, Fawn Leads at The Third Prasadbecause of a peculiarity of them, everywhere and always among all the many evolving and refining definitions of Human, Reality, Life — different as they could possibly be — never for a second, or even slightly, partially, or indirectly, included in that light of the obviously true, the common-sensical, by any culture. Part of this peculiarity — the relative upstart humans haveanother common defining characteristic: only half-ready for life at the time of birth (relative to all other brother-sister species comprising the citizens of Earth), they are, humans alone are, totally dependent for their survival upon the good will of the fully grown — often parents, but not of necessity and certainly not always.(to be continued)

Video Commentary by SillyMickel Adzema

What follows is a video of a reading of The Third Prasad, with commentary, elaboration, and context, by SillyMickel Adzema. This message begins to tell us how we are seen as different by all other species on Earth. We are seen as not quite ready for life when we are born, and we are seen as more vulnerable and more dependent on the good will of others for our very life. This is, indeed, a way in which we differ from all other beings. I believe it is called secondary altriciality. Ill check this out more and then elaborate on this.

“The Third Prasad” from The Great Reveal by The Planetmates
– the audiocast

The link above takes you to the audio-only version of my commentary on The Third Prasad, exactly as is in the video. Click on the link to go the the audio site, or you can listen to it here using the audio player below.

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Summary/ Abstract of “The Third Prasad” — by SillyMickel Adzema

Despite time and the myriad experiences and changes of widely spread out peoples and cultures, the Unapproved and Hidden are everywhere and always excluded from the light of the obviously true or the common-sensical. fawn..left,right,left,rightDespite the wide and varied differences of the many definitions of Human, Reality, and Life, the truths of your nature repressed in the Unapproved and Hidden are never for an instant, or even slightly, partially, or indirectly included in the obviously true of any culture. Part of the reason for this total exclusion has to do with another defining characteristic of you, relatively upstart, humans: you alone, of all species, are only half ready for life at the time of your birth — relative to all other brother-sister species comprising the citizens of Earth — and you alone are totally dependent for your early survival on the good will of your fully growns, i.e., your parents or other adult caregivers.

“Truth Is God”

Not exactly feeling like the pinnacle of creation today. But I don’t get ignorance being bliss at all!

Not exactly feeling like the pinnacle of creation today. But I don’t get for a minute what could possibly be blissful about ignorance. I remember a scene from a rather recent movie out of India. At one point, there’s a scene at a train station. There’s a huge crowd, all silent, as they are surrounding a silent, cross-legged Mahatma Ghandi. It was the Ghandi during his long period of huge popularity in India. He was seated on top of something so that he could be seen by the crowd, who earlier had been running to get a glimpse of him, as the news that he had stopped there was spread like a thunderclap.

It was an unusual scene for a movie. Everyone stood or sat, silently, staring at the holy man or else with bowed head in prayer, as the Mahatma was. And so it went, until, with no prior indication, he lifted his head. The people were already with him and with eager ears awaited his words. They were amazingly few. He said, “I spent most of my life thinking that God was Truth. I’ve come to believe that Truth is God. I invite you to join me in that belief.” And with that he was carried back into the train to continue his journey.

“Truth is God.” I invite you to swim with me in the profound and bottomless waters of that.

Additional Video Commentary by SillyMickel Adzema

Facing the Horrible

Child Abuse, Savage History of Childhood, Savage Human Ape Kills Its Own….. Face it. Scream.

Get humble. Accept it. Get better. Belong in the Universe. Return Home.

What follows is a video of additional commentary on The Third Prasad by SillyMickel Adzema. Issues discussed include child abuse, savage history of childhood, savage human ape kills its own.

Audio of Additional Commentary on Third Prasad released.
Child Abuse, Savage Human Ape Kills Its Own…. Now, scream!

The link above takes you to the audio-only version of my additional commentary on The Third Prasad, exactly as is in the video. Click on the link to go the the audio site, or you can listen to it here using the audio player below.

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Requiem for Earth / We Are Stones.
A Song-Chant Relic by SillyMickel Adzema

Sung by SillyMickel and Mary Lynn Adzema

Here, I’ll start….

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Image of Requiem for Earth / We Are Stones. A Song-Chant Relic by SillyMickel Adzema. Sung by SillyMickel and Mary Lynn Adzema

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The Third Prasad

The Third Prasad:

HALF-BORNS

With more time, and despite the myriad experiences and changes of the multitudinous and diverse (and mostly spread

Fawn Leads at The Third Prasad

Fawn Is First Consciousness at The Third Prasad

out  and

separated, never touching or knowing each other, on amassive planet) peoples and cultures, the Unapproved and Hidden are, because of a peculiarity of them, everywhere and always among all the many evolving and refining definitions of Human, Reality, Life — different as they could possibly be — never for a second, or even slightly,  partially,  or indirectly,  included in that light of the obviously true, the common-sensical, by any culture.

Part of this peculiarity — the relative upstart humans haveanother common defining characteristic:   only half-ready for life at the time of birth (relative to all other brother-sister species comprising the citizens of Earth), they are, humans alone are, totally dependent for their survival upon the good will of the fully grown — often parents, but not of necessity and certainly not always.


(to be continued)


What follows is a video of a reading of The Third Prasad, with commentary, elaboration, and context, by SillyMickel Adzema. This message begins to tell us how we are seen as different by all other species on Earth. We are seen as not quite ready for life when we are born, and we are seen as more vulnerable and more dependent on the good will of others for our very life. This is, indeed, a way in which we differ from all other beings. I believe it is called secondary altriciality. Ill check this out more and then elaborate on this.


What follows is a video of additional commentary on The Third Prasad by SillyMickel Adzema. Issues discussed include Child Abuse, Savage History of Childhood, Savage Human Ape Kills Its Own.


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