on your evolution to a purer love—one of Nature and built once again upon feelings of unity with Other—you would do well to look deeply into the inauthentic nature of what passes for love for you…

on your evolution to a purer love—one of Nature and built once again upon feelings of unity with Other and truly feeling *along with* another, not just in hopes of receiving in return—you would do well to look deeply into the inauthentic nature of what passes for love for you.

“You are, like all of us, capable of true and unconditional loving. Indeed, you have it in you to have that feeling toward all of Nature, toward all of Reality, even. But you cannot achieve that while caught up in and blind to the hidden agendas and self-seeking desperation which mars your love and while braying to the world about your supposed superior capacity for and the supreme purity of your love. What you need to acknowledge, to start, is how what you place on high, use to boost your estimation of yourself over all other living beings, and attribute to divine origins even … how this supposed “love” … is most often just a swirl of ritualistic craving and trickling satisfaction set in motion by keenly felt but supremely denied hurt….”

More at…

http://sillymickel.blogspot.com/2014/03/love-is-often-just-swirl-of-ritualistic.html

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